Going through the process of divorce can be quite costly, not only on your financial resources, but also on your time and emotions. If you and your spouse cannot come to an agreement on various factors of the divorce, then the judge will decide for you. For these reasons, a good alternative for court is mediation.

What is Mediation?

Mediation is the process in which a neutral third-party helps to assist in the resolution process between parties. The idea of mediation is to avoid a contentious divorce situation, instead focusing on how to come to an agreement where each party is content. Mediation allows for the parties to maintain control of their lives and their decisions, something that would otherwise be given up to the courts and judges.

The steps of the mediation process are:

Inquiry: This means one party makes a call to a mediator, during which the mediator attempts to discover how the person received their name, the names of both parties involved, whether there are any issues that could prevent the couple from engaging in mediation, length of the marriage, number of children, and where in the process the parties are.

The First Session: This serves as an introduction and overview of the process, which includes fees, the number of sessions, the mediator’s role, objectives, issues to be addressed, and a list of documents for each party to bring to the next session. Such documents include:

  • Defined Benefit Pension Valuation
  • Business Valuation
  • Pay stubs
  • All bank, brokerage, and 401(k)/403(b) statements
  • W-2s
  • Most recent federal tax return
  • Summary of insurance policies and coverage
  • List of household items to be divided
  • A credit report
  • Property values
  • The children’s school schedules, including holidays and days off

The Second Session: Focuses on the parenting plan and data collection, including:

  • Signing the agreement
  • Meeting between each party and the mediator
  • Developing a parenting plan
  • Providing budget worksheets
  • Collecting documentation requested in previous meetings

The Third Session: Focuses on data analysis for child support, as well as the distribution of assets and liabilities, including:

  • Reviewing child support and other child-related financial issues
  • Reviewing information on the assets and liabilities, and deciding how they will be divided
  • Collecting information regarding budgeting

The Fourth Session: Focuses on budgets and spousal support. This includes:

  • Current and Forecasted budgets
  • Spousal support if it is needed
  • Other issues, such as religious issues, income taxes, name changes, and social security

The Fifth/Last Session: Focuses on reviewing and revising the Memorandum of Understanding, which includes everything that was discussed and agreed upon during mediation.

For more information or to schedule a free consultation, contact us online or call us at 856-751-5505 today. Located in Marlton and Somers Point, New Jersey, we serve clients from the surrounding areas, including Burlington County, Camden County, Atlantic County, and throughout South Jersey.